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For many single people, first dates are like root canal work. Sure, dating is hard, but first dates are exponentially harder: letting a new person into your life, figuring out how much to share, sniffing around for those whiffs of all-important chemistry, trying to decide whether the person across from you is a nutcase on his or her dating someone with Lafayette LA intelligence behavior, and finally the aftermath — those hours spent second-guessing everything you said or did on a date.

At some point, it just becomes easier to put on your sweats, buy a pizza, and get a rom-com from the Redbox.

One woman who has mastered those first-date jitters, however, is Melissa Kordsmeier, 27, of Little Rock. Over the past two years, Kordsmeier has managed to become something of a first-date guru through sheer experience.

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Sorry fellas, one of her ground rules is to never kiss on the first date. When the relationship ended, she said, she found herself in a rut.

She admits she could be really awkward when meeting new people, which led to her reluctance to jump back in the pool. I was going to force myself to say yes to anyone who asked me out. It was just to get comfortable black dating in Lexington dating again.

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Once she decided to say yes to anybody, guys started asking her out. She went on nine first dates that month. In OctoberKordsmeier went on 17 first dates. We had to schedule around lunch dates just to sit down for a chat with her.

As you might imagine, being up for a date with anybody has led to some interesting nights on the town. One date took her to a Buddhist meditation class.

Another time, after learning they shared a love for gambling, her date took her on a road trip to a Mississippi casino, where they stayed up all night playing craps and roulette. As for good date ideas Detroit Michigan creepiest:.

We had a lot to talk about and we laughed. It was a really nice date.

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She said a good date is one in which the other person exudes self-confidence, stability and independence. Somebody who is independent is a must. I love taking care of people, but I need to know the guy will be stable without me.

I know what I want out of life, and I always figure out ways to achieve my goals. She recently went on a second date, which she said is rare for her.

As important, however, is what forcing herself to say yes has done in areas of her life other than the romantic. All sections Close sections. Arkansas Blog.

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