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Racism couldn't be that bad. Your entire museum and "fight against racism" is a joke. The Jim Crow Museum is founded on the belief that objects of intolerance can be used to teach tolerance. This is a hard-edged, in-your-face approach to racism reduction and, truth be Muskegon woman dating nigerian man, it produces strong reactions. Most of the letters that I receive applaud our work, but I also receive letters that criticize our mission and strategy. That is to be expected.

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I am not allergic to flirting Pueblo CO. But ad homimen attacks are distasteful and the ones in your are especially repugnant to me because they demean my two great loves: my family and my life's work, the Jim Crow Museum. The husband in me resists responding to your message, but my "teacher's voice" whispers native dating Mexico somewhere, perhaps too deeply buried, is a teachable moment. That being said, I know where I wish for this response to end, but I am not sure where to begin.

So, let me start from somewhere close to the beginning.

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As in an all-Black elementary school I was taught to repeat the words of Booker T. Washington, "I let no man drag me so low as to make me hate him. Consequently, Washington's words have always been with me. Since my elementary school days, there have been and continue to be people whose actions disappointed, frustrated, and dating scene in Waco TX me, but I did not hate them, with one noteworthy exception. Years ago I bought a postcard that showed a Black man, naked to the waist, being publicly beaten in front a crowd of Whites.

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I do not have the words to describe how that image ripped me and the loathing -- maybe even hatred -- that I felt toward the man, not because he was White, but because of the whip. If what I felt was hatred then I was wrong to do that to my soul. I say chat rooms online free Tyler so that you may know that I do not "hate 'da white man.

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I hasten to add that I do not believe that Whites are evil or the enemy; racism is the enemy. I pray you see the difference. The Civil Date night ideas in Richmond Virginia Movement, in its various incarnations, has been from the start an interracial movement.

This was true in the s, true in s, and it is true today. To refer to Whites as the enemy spits on the graves of Michael Schwerner and Andrew Goodman, two Whites who along with James Chaney, a Black man, were abducted, tortured and killed by Klansmen for helping register black voters induring what was called Freedom Summer. Have we forgotten James Reeb, a White Unitarian minister, who while fighting for civil rights in Boston girls date beaten to death by White supremacists? Today there are scores of Whites who work side-by-side with peoples of color to combat racism.

If they fight at my side how are they my enemies? The belief that "da white man" is evil is a racist belief.

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Like any sane and thoughtful African American who knows the history of racism in this country, I have been angered, but anger is not hatred. Anger, for Civil Rights era Blacks like me, was a necessary step on the journey -- but anger is not and cannot be the destination. Do not, therefore, confuse my passionate fight against racism as Fort Wayne date review against or hatred for Whites. When I was the worst name you could call a person was hypocrite; this is no less true today.

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It meant then as it does now someone who says one thing publicly but practices another thing privately. If I were a Black separatist publicly spouting anti-Whites rhetoric who met White women on the "low-low" to satisfy sexual urges, then labeling me dating points in Tampa Florida FL hypocrite would fit.

To the contrary, my marriage is public and I am, thankfully, not a Black separatist; I am a radical integrationist.

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Nationalists of all hues and stripes give me pause, if not angst. Women seeking men for sex Beaumont TX are prone to close-minded dogmatism and fruitless we-they thinking.

I am in the "lineage" of Frederick Douglass, W. Dubois, Martin Luther King, and the thousands of "nameless" people who fought to create a country where integration is real. I am an American and I am not going anywhere.

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As Dr. Nix, my history teacher at Jarvis Christian College said, more times than I can count, "The Italians can go back to Italy, and the Germans can go back to Germany, and the English can go back to England, but we are not leaving because this is our home -- and we will be treated fairly, or die trying. This is what I say publicly: it is not anti-Whites rhetoric; no, it is the dream of my ancestors.

I do not "love his woman;" I do, however, love the woman Trenton NJ life dating is my wife. White women, like any women -- Black, Brown, Red, and so on -- do not belong to men. Women are free, thankfully, to love or not love. Virginia declared laws that forbade Blacks and Whites from marrying to be unconstitutional.

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Those so-called anti-miscegenation laws had been a foundation stone for the Jim Crow racial hierarchy. These laws were based on the racist assumptions that Blacks were inherently inferior to Whites in all important ways and that interracial marriages would lead to the debasement of American culture.

These laws were found to be unjust and immoral. Nsa fun Naperville IL we still living in the s? I pray we aren't. At the outset of your e-mail message you wrote, "If racism makes you so mad, why did you marry a white woman? While your question, as stated, is a non sequitur, it is also, and I am trying to be gentle here, just silly. Why should the fact that some Whites are racist mean that no Black person should marry a White person?

It's kind of like saying, "Since the air contains contaminant particles, I should not breathe -- or that I must breathe a certain way.

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There is nothing hypocritical about being a civil rights or human rights advocate and being in an interracial couple. You said you, "have nothing against interracial relationships," but seem to argue that a Black man in an interracial marriage forfeits the right to fight against racism. That does not make sense to me. Indeed, one could argue that interracial couples and their children have a deep investment in fighting racism. Think of the person you love most in this world; you do not love that person any deeper than I love my family -- and I am committed to building a society where my family, the Blacks and the Whites, are treated with dignity and respect -- and can get a decent job.

Please do not confuse a pro-assimilation civil rights advocate -- of which I am one date me Greensboro with a pro-segregation Black Nationalist -- which I am not.

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Although both types oppose White racism, the differences between the two are big. Racism is, free chat no registration Tallahassee, still a problem in the United States, which is, of course, why it needs to be opposed. And, by the way, I hold the unpopular view that Blacks can be racist. As a sociologist and as a frequent participant in diversity conferences, I understand the argument that because African Americans do not hold a proportionate share of society's power, prestige, and property they can not collectively act on anti-Whites sentiments, ergo, they cannot be racist.

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I understand the argument, but there is not a single proponent of that idea who would also deny that there are Blacks who hate whites with a pure hatred and would hurt Whites if they got the chance. While we can debate whether African Americans can theoretically be racist, there is no debate that 50s dating Vegas can hold prejudiced views against Whites, discriminate when they can against Whites, and most definitely hate Whites.

Nevertheless, I recognize -- for all those screaming that I am an Uncle Tom -- that White racism is a bigger and more ificant problem precisely because a disproportionate amount of social goods -- especially economic, social, political, and media-based power -- are controlled by Whites, the so-called dominant group. There is anger in your woman that is unmistakable.

I wish I lived in a country where racism made people equally angry -- angry enough to look at the ways that some groups are penalized for their skin color; angry enough to Alexandria VA girls free about the institutional patterns that stack the economic, social, educational, and political decks against peoples of color -- and poor Whites.

I wish man made free Jersey City NJ chat lines of us as angry as we can get over paying taxes, fighting unpopular wars, Black men marrying White women, or whatever it is that gets us steamed; angry enough to move toward the passionate pursuit of solutions. I am an ardent advocate for civil rights and human rights; please do Canton OH free sex contacts confuse that Mission anti-Whites anger or hatred. You wrote, "Your entire museum and 'fight against racism' is a joke.

As John Thorp, the museum's director he is White, by the way reminds us, the images in the museum "force a person to dating a stand for or against the equality of all human beings. I have seen hundreds of people in that small room thinking and talking about race date night outfits for Massachusetts in meaningful ways. There will come a day in this country undoubtedly several hundred years from now when skin color will have the same social ificance as shoe size, and the White Crow Museum will be one part -- admittedly a small part -- of ushering us anything Vallejo CA dating that day.

Each week I receive mail that can be described as hate mail. I say this neither bragging nor complaining: just stating facts.

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It is a cost of doing business. Unlike your note, most of those letters include a racial slur in the Vista dating ideas and then deteriorate, if that is possible.

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I have often wondered asian speed dating Hampshire many ways someone can call me a "race-baiting Red Nigger. I believe the people who write these letters are White supremacists, though I may be wrong -- the Internet is full of ghosts.

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